Hi, I am Hilary Kinavey (she/her/hers). 

My path:

I am a therapist, educator, and facilitator whose work sits at the intersections of body liberation, grief, and sustainable practice. I am a co-founder of the Center for Body Trust, a nationally recognized organization that challenges weight-centered paradigms in health and wellness. Through this work, I have spent over two decades helping people reclaim their relationship with their bodies and supporting providers in reshaping the way they practice. She is also the co-author of Reclaiming Body Trust: A Path to Healing & Liberation, a book that deepens the conversation around healing, embodiment, and systemic change.

I am also deeply engaged in grief work, holding space for the losses—personal, cultural, and professional—that shape our lives. She co-facilitates Tending: Accompaniment at the Gates of Grief with Carmen Cool, LPC, a community-centered offering that recognizes grief as both an individual and collective experience. With warmth and depth, I support those navigating transitions, loss, and the emotional weight of doing meaningful work in difficult times.

Through EMBER, my business coaching program, I extend my experience to therapists, service providers, and values-driven entrepreneurs who seek to build businesses that sustain both their purpose and their well-being. She believes that tending to grief, embodiment, and sustainability is essential to creating work that lasts.

Hilary’s work is rooted in social justice, emotional integrity, and a belief that healing—whether in the body, in business, or in community—requires us to honor what has been lost in order to build something new.

 

I have been working in the therapeutic field for the last three decades. I hold a Master’s degree in Counseling that I earned in 2000. I have spent time working in community mental health, victim services, counseling research and in private practice.I have supported people who are healing from disordered eating, body shame, and the impact of weight bias and other traumas. My work is politicized. I am interested in what interrupts our sense of wholeness and how we can return to ourselves in a culture that profits from fragmentation. 

My work now has shifted from being a therapist to working as a consultant, trainer, coach and writer. The body of work you will find on this site will represent my work as a coach. What is the difference between coaching and therapy? After working as a therapist for over 20 years, I can say there is quite a big difference.  You can read more about that here.

What sustains me.

  •  My family - partner and two sons, My pets- Arrow, Stripers and Fluffers are so often the glue of family life.
  • My friends and the practice of friendship.
  • Irreverence, laughing, wit. Boundaries. Trusting my yeses and nos.
  • Cooking, baking, eating and cookbooks.
  • My corner of the world, very fortunately, is near a tiny lake where I witness an ecosystem doing what it knows to do. I love cosmology (though I understand very little) and the night sky. 
  • I love seeking words to describe experiences. The people I work with and support. My entrepreneurial life. I also love Astiana tomatoes, A new recipe. Family in the kitchen. Getting out of dodge. 
  • Making things with others has been the center of my life.

I am learning and unlearning:

About my privilege and power and how they impact relationships and my work.

Liberation and abolition.

How to befriend my own nervous system.

Aging, eldership and leadership.

I am always, always going for a C, not an A.  (this is also an ethic of Body Trust work -IYKYK)

To paint.

To make the best focaccia.

A few more things you should know about me...

  • I am not "type A". Even though, I work with my own perfectionism, expectations and obligations that I have inherited over many generations of striving ancestors. My work will not look perfect or be perfectly consistent. I will deliver, however, everything I say I will. Occasionally you will notice that there will be typos, mistakes, etc. I promise you that this is a sign of my evolving self, not that I do not care.
  • I swear often. If you don’t like that this may not be a supportive or fun program for you.
  • I feel feelings. I react to injustice and I name systemic harms and violence. I am not a blank slate.
  • I am a seasoned supporter, mentor, leader and advocate. You will also feel this in our work together.